Freelance writer and motivational speaker

Thursday, 25 March 2021

A GOLDEN KEY TO HAPPINESS

A GOLDEN KEY TO HAPPINESS
 
Happiness plays an important role in one’s life.Happiness increases one’s life span, too. And as such one who is happy is always a happy member of the team and the rest of team builds around him. Believe you us.An ipso- fact, a happy team always leads to higher output in the organisation.And, an organisation with no problems at all or with least problems is the resultant of happy family team. So, greater values the happiness possesses within. Is not it? True.Rightfully, so.Happiness in the family implies better health of all family members, better growth and better progress.To be happy please follow the following unwritten rules:-
 
  Happiness is a state of mind. True. Remember this is a mere statement of fact.One must practice , but. We all know practice makes a man perfect.
  Smile within. If you do so , body generates happiness enzymes within the body system
  Multiply happiness. Meet likeminded people always.Never to those who always take a negative dig at things. Meeting likeminded people will generate plethora of happiness aura around and unpleasantness is shunned away. Such people add on happiness and subtract sadness
  Condition your mind with regard to happiness that is think, sleep ,drink, eat, dream happiness. Once you achieve this state you will always remain happy and all others around you will be happy. Happiness begets happiness.
  Have at least two meals with all your family members on daily basis.Always talk about being happy and its unique advantages
  Do laughing yoga on regular basis. Firstly this is a sort of immunity exercise for various parts of the body and also genertaes happiness enzymes, good for general well being
  Donot cribb or criticise. Shun this habit.Donot find faults with others. Correct yourself and let others emulate you.
  Do something creative. Be it singing, painting, reading , writing ,cooking or anything for that matter which gives you happiness
  Do day dreaming on daily basis.Go over all the good things that happened and whatever good you did to others. This would give you profound happiness and fill your mind with joy
  Do exercise everyday. Over exercise for senior citizens might prove counter productive. Do meditation on regular basis.Achieve trance like situation
  Donot unnecessarily worry about the future and donot brag about your bad past and live in the present and donot overload yourself with unnecessary worries.
  Get up early in the morning and do whatever pleases you the most. You may like to listen to enchanting of hymns in the temple or watching the devotees with baskets full of flowers and vermilion being carried to the temple to be offered at the altar of god.
  Listen to cuckoos singing non- stop in the wee hours so soothing to mind.Listen to different chorus chirping of birds
  Donot sit idle. Remember an idle man’s brain is the devil’s workshop.Listen to music
  Play games if your health permits. Road run and walk just for fun in the wee hours. Remember god for at least 20 minutes daily.Go to the temple, mosque,church or gurudwara. No forcing but , a personal choice. Sit there for a while. Try to concentrate and achieve trance like state forgetting all other miscellaneous worries
  Help the poor , if you can, which you definitely can by all means. Do good to all, which you can before life is done.
  Work enthusiastically whether at home or workplace
  Develop hobby , if so far you have not developed one
  Donot develop any greed for money, though it is necessity of life. Remember money is everything , but equally true money is not everything. Money can never buy happiness.
  Spend quality time with learned people
  Kill your ego. Donot get annoyed, even if things have gone wrong and sometime they will in life. Worst didnot happen still , remember
  Have a good set of friends. They without fringing upon your privacy shall suggest practical and workable solutions to problems, if any, without any negative intenions
  Donot cribb that god gave you nothing . He gave you good health and made a handsome man out of you.Think for a while if one is handicap
  Be satisfied with whatever you have. Imagine for a while , if you were not what you are today.Then.
  Remember life is full of pleasures , ups and downs. Learn to live amidst pressures.Keep pressures at an arms length and live life and king size is the friendly advice
  Donot compare yourself with others. To rise look up and to live and lead a better life look down. Eveyone is born with a different destiny, remember
  Live your way . Cut your coat according to your cloth
  Donot ever think you are unlucky, you are very lucky in many ways, just think over
  Smile and let others smile. Multiply and Spread smiles all around, its highly infectious and very effective for overall good health
  Keep company with good and successful people and make everybody realise that happiness is everything and above all
  Donot allow negative emotions to grow and multiply within your body system. These are blood sucking toxins. If it happens, you will decay faster. Choice is personal.Ours is just a practical and workable suggestion
  Whatever annoys you avoid it , ignore it or accept that and live life. Never discuss what annoys you. just lump it.
  Develop greater harmonious way of life at home and at workplace as well. It shall pay rich dividends
  Just before retiring at night, before sleeping , remember god and your loved ones whom you have unfortunately lost and wish them to rest in peace in heaven.
  Undertake not undue pressures. These will siphon off energy from your healthy body. Be jovial, joyous and worry not over what you had lost
  Play with your pet , if you have one, otherwise worry not.Playing with pet is a great stress buster and provides immense pleasure
  Love youself and respect all others around you
  Eat food of your choice, but yes healthy food and avoid junk food by all means. Eat to remain healthy.Remember , eat to live and not live to eat.Donot ever over eat
  Stay active to keep yourself fit and fine. There are ways and means available
  Always be ethical.Unethical things many a times cause unasked for hurt aches. Also , remember hurting is at times painful, one may not realise.
  Watch beautiful flowers and observe their fragrance and smile
  Develop pardon culture and many times it keeps one away from thick soup
  Happiness is two way traffic.It is sort of give and take.Accept happiness , it will further generate happiness
  No vengeance or revengful attitude ever. It is highly damaging
  Donot carry enmity too far. Reconcile soon. Shoot and scoot enmity that’s all
 
We at the end expect all to grow and learn achieving happiness. Happiness is like a fragrance, so it must grow , spread and multiply all around.Good relations and harmonious relationship bonding, good set of friends and true friendship all put together are excellent attributes towards achieving permanent happiness. One must strive hard to achieve real happiness, which is of paramount importance to keep us all healthy and happy. Wish you all real happiness and enjoy life. God bless. 

115 comments:

  1. “I love this blog. I don’t know what I’d do without you and your great info! Thank you so much!”Vibhash Sharma 🤗👏

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    1. Happiness is like a fragrance and is highly infectious. Multiply happiness and spread it all around. Thanks for your support

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  2. Your encouraging words means a lot to me

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  3. Happiest mind create history in past and future too.

    Comment by : Sanjeev

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    1. Yes you are absolutely right, happiness is a state of mind.

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    1. Happiness is two way traffic. It is give and take. Thanks

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  6. Really real golden key words to success

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    1. Golden key to happiness is to remain happy come what may and do good to all as much as possible

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    1. Happiness is very important aspect in one’s life . Strive hard to achieve happiness come what may

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    1. Remember always a golden key to happiness is good relations

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    2. Remember always a golden key to happiness is good relations

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  9. Golden words ...keep going uncle

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    1. Golden words Like love all hate none are a golden key to happiness

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    2. Golden words Like love all hate none are a golden key to happiness

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  10. Happiness nicely summarised through your golden lines. In true sense, happiness is the essence of life which remains the ultimate goal of an individual in his life span. However,it can only be achieved with positive thinking , simple living , meagre materialistic requirements & honest disposition.Therefore, always believe & follow "Be happy, Don't worry"dictum for a contented life.

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    1. Dear buddy what you penned down is absolutely correct without a second thought. Life is full of ups and downs. One must strive hard to live amidst pressures and always look . into aspects what all we gained in life . Your comments are always well thought of and carries lot of weightage. Thanks for all the positive support from your end always. God bless

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    1. Thanks if you liked it . God bless

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    2. Thanks if you liked it . God bless

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  12. It is very true that the happiness plays an important role in the life. Happiness indeed increase the life span and the energy booster too . The happiest man put full energy and devotion towards his profession and get success definitely because the hard work is key of success. As for as Yoga is concerned not only laughing yoga but every kind of yoga event is sort of immunity exercise for various parts of the body and generats the happyness too. Kill your ego otherwise the ego will kill you. Lead a simple positive and helpful life in the society .Respect all and get respect from them also and made the life simple and beautiful otherwise no one has care for you and your dealings . Thanks SURAJ.

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  13. Thanks. Absolutely you are right that one should kill his ego failing which own ego will kill him. We should command respect and not demand respect. Remain happy which is the essence of life and spread wings of happiness

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  14. Thanks. Absolutely you are right that one should kill his ego failing which own ego will kill him. We should command respect and not demand respect. Remain happy which is the essence of life and spread wings of happiness

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  15. Thanks. Absolutely you are right that one should kill his ego failing which own ego will kill him. We should command respect and not demand respect. Remain happy which is the essence of life and spread wings of happiness

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  16. Good relations makes happiness every where

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  17. Absolutely good relationships and good bondings is an excellent way forward and provides profound happiness. The golden key is happiness happening

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  18. Remain happy even amidst pressures. Winds blow and go away soon. Worry not a good life emerges after toiling hard

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  19. Happiness plays a dominant role in one’s life. If one is happy amidst pressures, one would always do better and better is possible

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  20. Happiness is a real key for live a life
    Rumit

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    1. Yes Rumit by all means try to achieve happiness .

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    2. Yes Rumit by all means try to achieve happiness .

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    3. Happiness opens all doors to success. Those who are happy, believe you me they are achievers and success believers. Such people never look behind

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  21. Happiness in life is of paramount importance and this happiness leads one towards success always and every time. Always meet likeminded people and spread fragrance of happiness abound and all around. ,,,❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

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    1. Definitely shake hands with likeminded people, but not during the current days as we all are facing pandemic corona . Likeminded act as encouragers. Wishing by folding Hands is also a positive gesture of Showing solidarity towards each other.

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    2. Do whatever gives you happiness. May be playing with your grand children or watching beautiful birds moving around in your garden. Always more the merrier and enjoy life

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  22. A happy person forms a happy team with happy teammates around. Such a team is always beneficial for the organization and ensures a higher output. If such a team exists in the society where you and me , all are present , that society will grow from strength to strength . Hence Happiness is of paramount importance . Hip hip hurray happiness.

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    1. First be happy and then spread happiness around through your happiness team and marvelous results will accrue. Happy team means happy society and worth the effort.

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    2. First be happy and then spread happiness around through your happiness team and marvelous results will accrue. Happy team means happy society and worth the effort.

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  23. I like this blog
    Very nice
    Sunil choudhary
    Vijay pur

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    1. Dear Sunil thanks. You loved the blog and found it suitable

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    2. Dear Sunil thanks. You loved the blog and found it suitable

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  24. Happy life
    Healthy life
    Sunil choudhary
    Vijay pur

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    1. Happy and healthy life leads you towards success. Believe it and it will happen. Thanks

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    2. Happy and healthier life should be the fundamental principle of life. And live upto it and make sure you put in best foot forward to make a happy team grow. That’s it

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  25. Beutiful thoughts on happiness and it binds a team and works as wonders to achieve its goals and success. Keep yourself Happy.

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    1. Yes agreed a happy team is a great strength to give higher output in any organization for that matter. Try to create a happy team whose results are always encouraging. So be a part of happy team

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  26. Dear buddy thanks for appreciating. Happiness we know all is important to live a happy life. So why not strive hard to achieve happiness in whatever little way one can. Even when we wish someone good we achieve happiness. Must do it then. Even to say good morning or good evening gives happiness.

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  27. Dear buddy thanks for appreciating. Happiness we know all is important to live a happy life. So why not strive hard to achieve happiness in whatever little way one can. Even when we wish someone good we achieve happiness. Must do it then. Even to say good morning or good evening gives happiness.

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    1. Happiness is most vital for General well being and good health. Do what pleases you . Try to learn happiness is above everything and so try to achieve happiness come what may

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  28. Generate happiness aura within you and spread the same around. And a golden key to happiness is good for general good healt

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  29. There are any number of ways how can one achieve happiness and remain happy and cheerful forever. To have even meal with family is happiness . To play, to perform pooja, and to do yoga or meditation or reading or writing all are means to provide happiness depending on one’s taste and temperament. So happiness is near you just capture it that’s all.

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  30. Happiness is a state of mind . Deriving happiness depends mostly on the environment but there r ways to be happy ie thru good education, job , family , parents , promotions , success , recognitions , posts , good health n completing all the social responsibilities like education n marriage of the children . Some derive this thru completing / accomplishing the good , noble project or writing a good book for the use of the people . So happiness is there in you , you got to feel it . Exchanging the pleasantries will also give you lot of happiness . Pray all be happy n do good to others to be happy ! God bless!

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    1. Do remember do a thing which gives you happiness. Be it gardening, reading, writing, singing, painting, watching flowers or whatever. Happiness gives you satisfaction too

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  31. Yes my buddy you have brought out things very vividly. Whatever you have said is worth it. Yes you are absolutely correct when you say a person can be happy in different ways . Some might feel happy On getting promotion etc. but the best is to do something good for others in whatever little or bigger way one can ( Noble cause)

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  32. Always find a reason to be happy. Just forget materialistic things in life to remain happy which is the predominant key to happiness. One needs food , clothing and shelter to lead a good happy life. So work hard to get these things and remain happy. The other frills are not required.

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  33. Materialistic things are a cause of worry and give no satisfaction. Yes you have have correctly commented upon by stating that if a person has adequate food , clothing and shelter , nothing else I would say is required . Basic requirements are must to achieve happiness in real terms

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  34. It completely depends on the atmosphere in the house and surrounding areas and also positive attitude of the individual. A satisfied person is more happy then those who earned lot of money and made huge property by illegal means because they can sleep whole night
    Besides exchanging thought with each other will also give lot of happyness in life.
    Please keep it up.
    Best regards.
    Janardhan Singh slathia Dy.Suptd of police.

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  35. My dear Janardhan bhai ji , a great friend , a good neighbor And maintaining good happy and healthy relations And spreading smiles and happiness around like fragrance of flowers is really praiseworthy. Yes you have rightly brought out that satisfied person is more happier than the person having more money, who has earned through illegal means and yes they cannot sleep whole night. Be honest and believe in god he will give everything

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  36. Happiness should be the mantra of life . Happy happy life and happiness around generates happiness which is good for health.

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  37. A golden key to happiness is happiness only and only happiness. Learn to multiply happiness around abound and all pleasures around will generate further happiness profound

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    1. Just thought came to my mind and I sat down to write few lines for the benefit of general people . Some definitely will like the idea and benefit so wrote to achieve happiness come what may

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  39. Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder. If you have lemons make lemonade. Only positivity works in each situation please remember. Thanks

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  40. Very beautiful and useful thoughts are found in the poem. Every human being should act according to the guide lines mentioned in the poem for happy and healthy life . It is also true that happyness plays an important role in the life as it increase the life span too. Be happy stay home stay safe and look for the better. Woo din nahi rahe to Jeh din be nahi rahe ge .Regards

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    1. Dear Suraj thanks a lot for your encouraging comments . Definitely I always try to write something which may bring sparkle of success in someone and my aim is fulfilled as simple

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  42. Dear Suraj bhai thanks for your appreciation which encourages me further. Muje bada accha laga aapka thought that is woo din nhi rahe tou JE din bhi nhi rahenge, good one , Purely positive thought . One should live and think this way . Remain happy and enjoy good life but positivity must for happy and healthy life definitely. Good god bless

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    1. Positivity and positive thoughts create positive minds . Such persons shun negativity and full of positivity grow and grow and s to op not to make others grow too

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  43. Happiness is very vital in one’s life . If a person is happy, he would achieve anything in life . So happiness is of paramount importance and and please understand distribute happiness it multiplies when distributed. If not then decrease

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    1. Happiness is most important for good health and definitely a good progress, a person makes who is happy.

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  44. A golden key to happiness is happiness profound only. Please remain satisfied and achieve more happiness in life which will pay more satisfying dividends with regard to one’s good health. That’s all

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    1. A key to happiness is grow above materialistic things. Try to earn through honest means and live well within your own means, a most satisfying life

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  45. Thank you for sharing inspiration and motivational thought

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    1. Most contented people are those who believe in living a simple and dignified way of life . Such people are most happy too , since they have no yearning for materialistic ways of life

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  46. Happiness generates happiness and spreads around happiness for sure. Thank you so much that you liked the article.

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  47. Very beautiful 😍😍😍😍😍😍

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  48. Thanks for you appreciation. If you liked the idea please try to achieve happiness at every step. Happiness generates further happiness which is marvelous idea

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  49. Beautiful thoughts on every aspect of life which can be useful for every human being in day to day life. Yoga is very useful for healthy life as it is kind of amunity exercise for various parts of the body and generats happiness too . Happiness generally increase the life span and energy booster of success .Suraj

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  50. Thanks for your friendly encouraging pat. Yes you are absolutely right in saying that yoga or meditation is good for health. Do whatever provides you happiness profound. Happiness increases one’s life span yes because happiness generates happiness enzymes within the body system and enhance immunity.

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  51. Do any activity which gives you happiness . Say for example singing reading writing or visiting temple or whatever. Do it in the first place what gives one happiness

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  52. Zindagi hai do chaar din ka mohtaaz
    Zindagi Hans ke gujjaar
    Happiness and happiness all around should be the zindagi kaa mantra
    s

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  53. Really speaking you have rightly brought out that life must be lived well and you never know when will be last day. So enjoy life full on and so that you have no regrets of any sort later. A golden key to happiness is happiness itself

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  54. Majestic article....
    By gopi

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  55. Whatever thanks for appreciating. I thought to write few lines so that some people may benefit, in a manner to show the way that happiness is of paramount importance and we all must strive hard to achieve happiness

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  56. True sir happines is very important in life money doesn't matter if their is no happines and peace in our lifes
    One important thing in life is to keep yourself happy and making others happy.....
    By asharat

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  57. Oh Ashrat great. And you are absolutely right, more important is to make others happy and one should remain himself happy too , come what may.Happiness you can’t buy and happiness is a state of mind. Thanks a lot for your encouraging words

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  58. Always my aim is to tell people they you have it in you . Just wake up, work hard and move forward.

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  59. Dear Param, happiness is at PARAM with you & your article.Off late we have digressed from Sanatan teaching to thank nature & Almighty for what ever we get good & only crib about small little difficulties which are for testing and further refinements of life SO happiness at all times for one & all should be our motto,which your above article has brought out very nicely.👌

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  60. Dear buddy Davera you and mall Both are my first love in army . We all three had very good relations also. My aim always is to write in general as free lancer and about positivity and happiness and doing good to others as much as possible. Always maintain happiness is of paramount importance whether one understands or not is a separate question. Achieve happiness come what may. Do small small things to achieve happiness that’s all

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    1. Thanks dear we started our journey from Pachmarhi & come a long way.
      Nice to read your articles/Poems KEEP it up

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  61. Great message for youngesters sir

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    1. Thanks a ton for your your appreciation. A golden Key to happiness is happiness itself

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    2. Thanks a ton for your your appreciation. A golden Key to happiness is happiness itself

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    3. Thanks a lot for your encouraging words. Learn to grow from strength to strength and remain happy always

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  62. You make a bigger impact than you realise.You make me realise that happiness is not something readymade , it comes from Your own actions. Thanks and Regards.

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  63. Life is rock and roll . One must learn to roll on in life and move ahead with one’s mission and succeed come what may. But happiness is of paramount importance which one should never loose sight of. Happiness is from within yes you are absolutely correct

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  64. As you write about it is true happiness is only medicine to cut any disease

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    1. As we know all , a key to real happiness is no criticism and accept criticism to grow. But remember happiness is above all

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    1. Happiness is directly related to good health also , forget not . Thanks for your support and your point well taken

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