Freelance writer and motivational speaker

Friday, 26 March 2021

FROM WITHIN

 

 

LAUGH , SMILE

SATISFACTION SYNONYM CONTENTMENT

COMFORT SYNONYM SOLACE

PATIENCE AND PERSEVERANCE

UNIQUE UNION

HELP AND HAPPINESS

NOTHINGABOVE, YOU CAN BUY WITH MONEY

THE INNER VOICE SAID

IT IS GENERATED FROM WITHIN

SO CHANGE YOUSELF

FOR YOUR BETTER TOMORROW

REMAIN HAPPY AND ENJOY LIFE FULL ON

SEVEN WONDERS OF LIFE


 

ALL KINGS,QUEENS,PRIME MINISTERS OR PRESIDENTS

WERE/ARE BORN TO SOME LOVELY MOTHER

THEREBY SYMBOLIZING MOTHER

AS A UNIQUE SYMBOL OF DIVINE RESPECT

LIKE A GODDESS ON EARTH.

A SISTER PET TAKES A PLEDGE

TO TAKE CARE OF HER BROTHER THROUGH THICK AND THIN

BROTHER IS NO LESS WHO PROMISES FOR WHOLE LIFE

TO PROVIDE HER PROTECTION AND WELL REMEMBERS RAKHI KA BANDAN

THE RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN THE TWO IS PUREST OF THE PURE

LIKE TWENTY FOUR CARAT GOLD

A FATHER IS FAMILY’S BEAST OF BURDEN

CARRIES FAMILY’S FINANCIAL BURDEN ON HIS HEAD

NEVER GIVES UP BUT,AND LEADS FROM THE FRONT

AND ALWAYS DESIRES HIS CHILDREN TO DO BETTER THAN HIM

LOVE ALL AND HATE NONE

LET HUMANITY AND HUMANISM THRIVE

YOUR SPOUSE IS YOUR STRENGTH

WHAT IS THAT YOU CANNOT ACHIEVE

WHEN SHE STANDS BY YOUR SIDE,AS SIMPLE AS THAT

FRIENDS ARE HIDDEN TREASURE,BUT A RARE BRAND

NOT FROM YOUR BLOODLINE CLAN

BUT STANDING BY YOUR SIDE TWENTY FOUR INTO SEVEN

AND ARE A GIFT FROM HEAVEN

CHILDREN AND GRAND CHILDREN ARE GEMS AND DIAMONDS TOGETHER

AND EXISTS DIVINE POWER IN THEM

TAKE CARE OF THEIR ELDERS WITHOUT A GRUDGE

ABERRATIONS IF, ANY ARE UNWELCOME

Thursday, 25 March 2021

A GOLDEN KEY TO HAPPINESS

A GOLDEN KEY TO HAPPINESS
 
Happiness plays an important role in one’s life.Happiness increases one’s life span, too. And as such one who is happy is always a happy member of the team and the rest of team builds around him. Believe you us.An ipso- fact, a happy team always leads to higher output in the organisation.And, an organisation with no problems at all or with least problems is the resultant of happy family team. So, greater values the happiness possesses within. Is not it? True.Rightfully, so.Happiness in the family implies better health of all family members, better growth and better progress.To be happy please follow the following unwritten rules:-
 
  Happiness is a state of mind. True. Remember this is a mere statement of fact.One must practice , but. We all know practice makes a man perfect.
  Smile within. If you do so , body generates happiness enzymes within the body system
  Multiply happiness. Meet likeminded people always.Never to those who always take a negative dig at things. Meeting likeminded people will generate plethora of happiness aura around and unpleasantness is shunned away. Such people add on happiness and subtract sadness
  Condition your mind with regard to happiness that is think, sleep ,drink, eat, dream happiness. Once you achieve this state you will always remain happy and all others around you will be happy. Happiness begets happiness.
  Have at least two meals with all your family members on daily basis.Always talk about being happy and its unique advantages
  Do laughing yoga on regular basis. Firstly this is a sort of immunity exercise for various parts of the body and also genertaes happiness enzymes, good for general well being
  Donot cribb or criticise. Shun this habit.Donot find faults with others. Correct yourself and let others emulate you.
  Do something creative. Be it singing, painting, reading , writing ,cooking or anything for that matter which gives you happiness
  Do day dreaming on daily basis.Go over all the good things that happened and whatever good you did to others. This would give you profound happiness and fill your mind with joy
  Do exercise everyday. Over exercise for senior citizens might prove counter productive. Do meditation on regular basis.Achieve trance like situation
  Donot unnecessarily worry about the future and donot brag about your bad past and live in the present and donot overload yourself with unnecessary worries.
  Get up early in the morning and do whatever pleases you the most. You may like to listen to enchanting of hymns in the temple or watching the devotees with baskets full of flowers and vermilion being carried to the temple to be offered at the altar of god.
  Listen to cuckoos singing non- stop in the wee hours so soothing to mind.Listen to different chorus chirping of birds
  Donot sit idle. Remember an idle man’s brain is the devil’s workshop.Listen to music
  Play games if your health permits. Road run and walk just for fun in the wee hours. Remember god for at least 20 minutes daily.Go to the temple, mosque,church or gurudwara. No forcing but , a personal choice. Sit there for a while. Try to concentrate and achieve trance like state forgetting all other miscellaneous worries
  Help the poor , if you can, which you definitely can by all means. Do good to all, which you can before life is done.
  Work enthusiastically whether at home or workplace
  Develop hobby , if so far you have not developed one
  Donot develop any greed for money, though it is necessity of life. Remember money is everything , but equally true money is not everything. Money can never buy happiness.
  Spend quality time with learned people
  Kill your ego. Donot get annoyed, even if things have gone wrong and sometime they will in life. Worst didnot happen still , remember
  Have a good set of friends. They without fringing upon your privacy shall suggest practical and workable solutions to problems, if any, without any negative intenions
  Donot cribb that god gave you nothing . He gave you good health and made a handsome man out of you.Think for a while if one is handicap
  Be satisfied with whatever you have. Imagine for a while , if you were not what you are today.Then.
  Remember life is full of pleasures , ups and downs. Learn to live amidst pressures.Keep pressures at an arms length and live life and king size is the friendly advice
  Donot compare yourself with others. To rise look up and to live and lead a better life look down. Eveyone is born with a different destiny, remember
  Live your way . Cut your coat according to your cloth
  Donot ever think you are unlucky, you are very lucky in many ways, just think over
  Smile and let others smile. Multiply and Spread smiles all around, its highly infectious and very effective for overall good health
  Keep company with good and successful people and make everybody realise that happiness is everything and above all
  Donot allow negative emotions to grow and multiply within your body system. These are blood sucking toxins. If it happens, you will decay faster. Choice is personal.Ours is just a practical and workable suggestion
  Whatever annoys you avoid it , ignore it or accept that and live life. Never discuss what annoys you. just lump it.
  Develop greater harmonious way of life at home and at workplace as well. It shall pay rich dividends
  Just before retiring at night, before sleeping , remember god and your loved ones whom you have unfortunately lost and wish them to rest in peace in heaven.
  Undertake not undue pressures. These will siphon off energy from your healthy body. Be jovial, joyous and worry not over what you had lost
  Play with your pet , if you have one, otherwise worry not.Playing with pet is a great stress buster and provides immense pleasure
  Love youself and respect all others around you
  Eat food of your choice, but yes healthy food and avoid junk food by all means. Eat to remain healthy.Remember , eat to live and not live to eat.Donot ever over eat
  Stay active to keep yourself fit and fine. There are ways and means available
  Always be ethical.Unethical things many a times cause unasked for hurt aches. Also , remember hurting is at times painful, one may not realise.
  Watch beautiful flowers and observe their fragrance and smile
  Develop pardon culture and many times it keeps one away from thick soup
  Happiness is two way traffic.It is sort of give and take.Accept happiness , it will further generate happiness
  No vengeance or revengful attitude ever. It is highly damaging
  Donot carry enmity too far. Reconcile soon. Shoot and scoot enmity that’s all
 
We at the end expect all to grow and learn achieving happiness. Happiness is like a fragrance, so it must grow , spread and multiply all around.Good relations and harmonious relationship bonding, good set of friends and true friendship all put together are excellent attributes towards achieving permanent happiness. One must strive hard to achieve real happiness, which is of paramount importance to keep us all healthy and happy. Wish you all real happiness and enjoy life. God bless. 

ESSENTIAL RESOLUTIONS IN LIFE

It is wise for each of us from time to time, to stop and evaluate our lives as we seek to make the most of them. Regardless of the time of the year , self reflection is important. Consider these resolutions for a better you. It is after all , our habits that determine the course of our lives

 

Resolution one: Resolve not to talk of negativity. Let not negativity overrule you or travel around you .Let positivity overtake negativity, it is like twenty four carat gold. Permit not negativity to engulf you or surround you.

Resolution two: Resolve to have good set of family and friends as a social connect and always keep them in tact. They are your precious and priceless possessions of happy life and forget them never, before life is done.

Resolution three: Resolve to learn the magnificent science of converting impossibles into possibilities, which is possible.Just learn to make it happen and not let it happen.

Resolution four: Resolve to spread and multiply fragrance and smile like flowers by default. Good for all , you must decide.

Resolution five: Resolve to multiply and spread love and hate none , let all around love resound and reside

Resolution six : Resolve to help needy, if you can on voluntarily basis in whatever and whichever little way you can, which is always possible. One just needs little bit positivity to prevail upon.

Resolution seven: Resolve to understand the rigmarole of life. Enjoy life, we all know eveything at the fag end on the unfateful day for sure will be left behind including gold and diamonds , property , bank balance and other assets.Health takes priority over wealth.Life is like shoot and scoot.so?

Resolution eight: Resolve to love , sleep and dream a happy world . We all together can make it happen.

Resolution nine: Resolve to give and take nothing in return, will return on its own one day for sure with compound interest. Maintain patience and perseverance.

Resolution ten: Resolve to be always honest and support not the corrupt

Commandeth resolution: Follow the above resolutions explicitly explained and enjoy the fruits of life bestowed on all of us in some form or the other by god. And at the end god bless you all by granting good health and best of life.

Wednesday, 24 March 2021

COMMANDMENTS AND ELIXIR OF LIFE


Hello all.

We all aspire to live and lead a good life, elixir life (lovely , lively and healthy life) and by all means yes , a good way of life, a way forward . Fine . That’s a very good idea and we all should move forward and embark on this path definitely and walk on. But , we all together must do good and preach and teach good. We all have to follow certain unwritten rules and regulations and guidelines, call it commandments a way forward to elixir of life . We all together have to move forward in one direction without cribbing or criticizing to make society a better living place for all ,which is possible and not impossible and remember better is always possible. So why further delay. Let us all follow the following commandments of life:-

 

First: Good family, good set of friends and good social connect and healthy relations with all will act as super tonic, good for general good health. All above put together will work proficiently and provide tip-top health.What else one would need. But one must invest to reap benefits. A good idea we must implement without any delay

 

Second :- To rise look up and aim high. Dissect not hows and whys . These are negative emotions or indicators . Talk of DOS and talk not of DON’TS. Try to

achieve, but, one got to believe first.And definitely one will achieve what one belives. Look down for living a comforted and satisfied life , a vicks 44 formula to give you immediate relief from unsatisfied headaches to live within own means . That is to accept what one is destined.

 

Third:- Appreciate others achievements . This is a good positive quality by the way

to encourage others to do further well and excel. Appreciating others will act as a booster dose for them to do more better further and will provide a lot solace to those who appreciated. Both parties will benefit. Appreciating and acting as encourager is a very good quality, which most of us lack due to whatever reason, am hesitant to pen down, since you know all . Just do self introspection.Those who appreciate they know they will grow from such an attitude and one day for sure they will achieve much more.

 

Fourth:- Convert impossibilities into possible opportunities. Say thumping your chest that you will make it happen ( a determined and courageous approach) and not let it happen (an unfocussed and defeated attitude). And what you believe follow it up and must achieve and always believe everything is possible provided one makes it happen. Better is always on forefront if we put our best foot forward.

 

Fifth:- Smoking and drinking are vices, responsible for ruining good health of many individuals . Refrain from both the vices and do convince others too, to renunciate . Choice is personal on the subject.Ours is a friendly and well thought of constructive and well tested suggestion though . Chain smoking directly attacks lungs and heavy drinking attacks liver.

 

Sixth:- Do good to others always and everytime wherever and whenever possible, in whatever little or bigger way one can. Such an attitude will create and generate happiness enzymes, good for health. What else you need.

 

Seventh:- Provide pro bono services. that is really the pleasurable way to achieve happiness and spread goodwill around and become a useful member of the society.That is each one teach one concept. Be non greedy to the hilt. Just requires a little effort to control greed. Limit your needs and remain well within your means. And be honest and have self respect.

 

Eighth:- Command and do not demand respect. Go out of the way to teach and preach. How to live a simple and dignified life. Doing for self is a ritual practice and doing for others is a selfless service , few can only do and only few could do. This is only counted in the dossier of god. Better is always possible but little effort is mandatory.

 

Ninth:- Be a part of solution, never be a part of the problem. Help build the nation and people around. A good society will emerge which will be a great boon. Never one could achieve by a sudden flight, was possible through a protracted struggle. Do have a society inhabited by all good human human beings. Achieve and multiply happiness. Let us all take a pledge to change each other by all possible means and apply which works.

 

Tenth:- Bonhomie with positivity and bete noire with negativity.

 

All who have come on mother earth will leave and go one day for sure. So what? Follow above ten commandments of life as a way of life and keep surging ahead without any rebuttals. Live , enjoy and live king size life. Be a part of positive change. Change yourself and others too, for better future tomorrow and of course a good society around than yesterday and when time comes for you to leave , leave without any regrets. A good society in anticipation you leave behind. Hip hip hurrah

. Thosewho sneer and scoff at the basic idea of making society a great society through our contributions are mistaken. We all are warp and woof of social pattern. And we all will make it happen, a great society and worth living. Period

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